In my decade of coaching women, I have worked with dozens of ex-strippers, pole dancers, escorts, and women in the sex work space. I even had the honor to work with the world’s sexiest life coach who was a porn star, playboy bunny, turned life coach that wanted my help to truly embody her divine feminine Goddess essence.
Yessss this was so much fun & exactly the type of woman I could help transform both for herself and her entire platform….this is the stuff that lights me up the most. Not only helping a woman get results for herself but also ripple into her community and platform that results in awakening and perspective shifts for millions of others.
Sex work is not all gross, grimy, low-class, and trashy like it is portrayed in media. The women I have worked with and are currently coaching are rich; they have so much money that they made in their own empowering way and enjoy the luscious, luxurious things in life. They hustle, dream big, and play even bigger- a bet you wouldn’t even think of putting the words “high achiever” in the same sentence as “stripper”…
These women just owned it and for them, it was a big win to take themselves into financial sovereignty. They were so driven, motivated, and truly desired to be the BEST at their chosen craft.
I know that the “stripper” narrative has been a negative one, as women even look down upon other women who dare to bare it all and live a liberated lifestyle. This is true regardless if you dance freely professionally, at a party, or on your social media - a shadow is cast upon the feminine sexual expression instead of wondering what we can learn to liberate ourselves.
Your inner-stripper has a confident inner narrative when she’s turned on and in the zone as she tells herself “I’m clear, I desire you right here” as she oozes with confidence, grace, playfulness, and groundedness. She conquers shame. She reclaims her power.
She relishes in her desire- she loves prosperity and her freedom to choose.
She has a magnetic power - she’s not afraid of her power because she’s there to dance, to be successful, and to be seen. She’s POTENT and draws in people who want to connect with her more intimately. She wants to feel desires, she wants to experience love and connection.
Our inner stripper can teach us how to not focus on validation from the outside but to truly be IN our body, in our pleasure - FOR US - not for the show…but it always creates the best type of show.