Discover Your Unique Sex Appeal

7 Tips to Stand Out and Attract Attention You Want

Hello Pleasurista,

I hope you’re smiling today wherever you are!

I’m sitting here writing to you from our new home in Puerto Rico - staring at the deep blue sea and feeling the ocean breeze- it’s such a vibe here and every day is a sensual experience when you live so close to the beach and are immersed in nature!

Literally living my vision board and my B I G dream come true that I invested so much energy into many years of visualizing this feeling alive.

This feeling of getting what you want is SEXYYYY!

Sexy is feeling, it’s a vibe and it’s an energy that is super attractive not only to help you manifest your dreams (people, and opportunities into your life) and to attract the right type of attention from men.

Whether you’re in a relationship right now and want to SPICE things up or you are desiring to attract more men as potential partners, lovers, or playmates - I have some juicy and simple tips to reconnect you to that sexiness now so that you can get a jump start on attracting that summer love!

Everyone has a unique sex appeal, a certain je ne sais quoi that makes them stand out and attracts attention.

Whether it's your sultry voice, captivating smile, or your irresistible sense of humor, your sex appeal is what sets you apart from the crowd and draws people to you. Be a flamingo in a room full of doves 💋


Here are some tips to help you discover your unique sex appeal and use it to your advantage:

1) Embrace your individuality: BE OUTSTANDING which means stand out just a bit more than everyone else, you don’t need to be over the top to get attention. Your unique sex appeal is all about being yourself, so the first step to discovering it is to embrace your individuality. Don't try to be someone you're not – instead, focus on accentuating your natural qualities and highlighting your strengths.

2) Get in touch with your sensual side: Sensuality is an important aspect of sex appeal, and it can take many forms. Whether it's a love for good food, a fondness for fine wine, or a passion for sensual music, tap into your sensual side and let it shine.

3) Be confidently sexy: I feel like I sound like a broken record but I can’t stress enough the importance of TRUE inner confidence as a skillset we must cultivate as women.

Confidence is one of the most attractive qualities a person can have, and it's essential to making the most of your sex appeal. Believe in yourself and your abilities, and don't be afraid to show it off and SHINE. OWN your sexiness, your attractive qualities, and the fact that other people already find you to be so sexy and attractive. Believing this right now will make you feel super sexy without even needing to lift a finger.

4) Be playful: Im a joker and my man LOVES it! I am always playing and marching to my own beat because it’s what makes me feel so happy and alive. You see my walking down the street and it looks like I’m having the time of my life- all the time. A sense of humor and a playful spirit can add a spark to your sex appeal.

Don't take yourself too seriously, and have fun with life and the people around you. We all have a deep desire to play in a world that I so focused on work so the more playful you are in your text messages as plans are being made -flirt with your partner in surprisingly playful ways that are out of the normal ways he’s used to because this will spark his attraction to you and you will get more of his attention now focused your way.

This tip goes a long way when we are truly desiring attention and want to be the focal point of his energy as well as any room we walk into - people want to be around playful people.


5) Take care of your physical appearance: Your physical appearance is a big part of your sex appeal, so it's important to take care of it. Maintain a healthy diet, exercise regularly, move in feminine ways, and dress in a way that flatters your body type and accentuates your best features.

This is less about the makeup and more about that clean natural glowing beauty that is highly attractive to men. Take care of your nails, focus on your skincare routine, oil your body so your skin is soft, and think beyond the botox if you truly want to embody that attractive feminine radiance.

6) Be approachable: STOP HIDING - there I said it! You say you want attention and to be the attraction point of men’s attention yet you find yourself still hiding behind other women's spotlight, being their sidekick, staying in the background because it’s less scary for you than having all eyes on you.

Practice sitting in the middle of the table and letting your own spotlight shine. People are drawn to those who are warm, welcoming, and approachable, so make sure to smile, make eye contact, and be open and friendly as an unspoken invitation for connection.

7) Be passionate: When someone speaks about something they are passionate about, they light up- their eyes get big and bright, their energy becomes warm and attractive and you can’t help but to feel their passion alive inside of your own body.

This is the magic of passion...Passion is a powerful force that can make you stand out and attract attention. Whether it's your work, your hobbies, or your relationships, let your passions shine and let others see how much they mean to you.

In conclusion, your unique sex appeal is what makes you special and sets you apart from the rest. By embracing your individuality, getting in touch with your sensual side, being confident and playful, taking care of your appearance, being approachable, and being passionate, you can make the most of your sex appeal and attract attention.

Review this article again as your own personal quiz and notice which of these 7 areas are you needing to amp up so that you can embody more of your natural sex appeal.

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